Parents Who Practice
Social Media: Best Mother’s Day Gift for Lawyer Moms
So, social media for lawyers has been experiencing a bit of a backlash lately. Some of it, deservedly so — and that’s from someone who’s co-authored a book on the subject. By now, many lawyers are not only recognizing, but beginning to agree that despite the hype from self-professed experts social media doesn’t make lawyers…
Read MoreHow the Work-Life Balance Advocates Do A Disservice To Women Lawyers
[Updated as of 10 am] For years, Deborah Epstein Henry, author of the just-released book, Law and Reorder , Cynthia Calvert of the Project for Attorney Retention and others have been pushing large law firms to offer part-time and other flexible employment arrangements to retain women. And if the results of the fifth annual report…
Read MoreWhoosh, They’re Gone
From the moment that my first daughter and then her sister were born, I steeled myself for the day that they would grow up and leave. Yet their departure came sooner than I imagined: at 8 am this morning, to be precise, when my husband and I dropped them off at the stop for the…
Read MoreWhen You’re the Boss, You Don’t Beg For Work Life Balance. You Make It So.
Like every parent on the planet, I’ve told my daughters more times than I can remember some variation of the following: Yes, you can eat chocolate for dinner or stay up until three am or leave orange peels on the floor or [fill in the blank] when you have your own place and pay your…
Read MoreDon’t Settle for Second Place When Starting Your Law Firm
As I’ve written here previously, I’m an ardent admirer of Michelle Obama, particularly her ability to make the seamless life seem so easy. This upcoming book on the Obamas by Chris Anderson, which is intended to portray Mrs. Obama as an insolent, money-hungry shrew of a wife, makes me like her even more. Anderson’s book…
Read MoreHappy Double Digits to My Mira
A decade ago today, I gave birth to my second daughter and as it happened, my last child, Mira Justine Israel. I remember wondering before she arrived whether I could possibly love her as much as her older sister. But the second I held Mira in my arms, I discovered, as all parents do, that…
Read MoreOff They Go
Another September, another school year begins begins for my daughters and me. This year, my almost-ten year old enters fifth grade while my almost teenager goes on to eight grade, the last before high school. Today, we officially dispensed with the tradition of my dropping them off at school on the first day and instead,…
Read MoreWhen Should You Make “The Big Reveal?”
In dating, it’s known as "the big reveal" – the point in an emerging relationship where both participants put everything out on the table, from old flames to skeletons in the closet to religious preferences and desire for marriage and children. Deciding when to make the big reveal is tricky. Disclose too soon and you…
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